Daftar Hotel - FOR express affection, often the parents kiss the baby. However, as we get older the child, often has he refused to kiss them. Especially if the child Moms male.
Hotel Murah di Jakarta - So, if you are ashamed of the little champion kissed in public, yes that's what happened! Because boys tend to experience a crisis into an "adult". The little man is no longer willing to be a child, a loved-baby even kiss-kiss. What about the whiz Moms?
For you are experiencing these conditions, exposure Milka Melvina, M. Psi., From the University of Pelita Harapan can answer the following:
Still Need Attention
Moms do not have to worry if your little hero suddenly refuse to be kissed while in a public place. Because, right now she is experiencing many changes as emotional maturity and social skills. This is common in boys.
Another case with girls who generally can not refuse a kiss or hug her parents.
Then, if the boys do not need a hug or a kiss? Sure need! Originally treatment was done not in a public place. As a parent, it should give attention and affection toward children. Even this can help overcome the crisis she faces.
But for boys, your understanding is needed. He still needs fondling, kissing and other forms of affection you can make it comfortable. For example, when Moms want to kiss the hero little while to take him to school, you should do in the car or while still at home.
No less important, when the child is experiencing a crisis of masculinity stereotypes, encourage husbands to cooperate. You and your husband can give an example, there's no harm in occasionally express affection in front of your children while in public. Children are expected to understand that being a grown man does not mean that reject all forms of expression of affection! Children also need to know, express affection is natural.
Shame Securities kissed
Do not force your child if he did not want to be kissed in public, yes, Moms! The reason, he will feel ashamed and could pull away from parents. Even a child could have so do not want to go to school, because of the shame of ridicule of his friends who saw when she was kissed by her parents.
For Children Not Ashamed
Kissing the child before bed or when the drive to school, maybe merupak "ritual" that often parents do. However, Moms or Dads should also be informed when any time the child refused the ritual was conducted in a public place.
In principle, parents should notice little sense. If he is no longer willing to be kissed in public, ask him to talk and ask what the reasons did not want to be kissed. Explain to children the reasons Moms kiss. Do it slowly and do not discredit the child. After all, the small also have a right to express his feelings too.
So that children are not embarrassed, parents need to pay attention to considerations of time and place. Customize your child's age as well as Moms want to kiss him in public, so she does not feel ashamed. One more, parents should be sensitive to the feelings of the child and noticed all the changes in attitude and behavior toward a way of expressing affection which give Moms.
